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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:21

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

How can someone effectively handle a targeted individual?

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

No country for ugly people…

In my experience, British people are fat, ugly and arrogant. Why is it and can it be changed?

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Can they start feeding only one meal to prisoners on death row or those doing a life sentence? Because only then will it be real punishment. If they want extra food they can work or pay from their own pocket.